Sarah Watson , licensed professional counselor and sex therapist. Spend plenty of time warming up before you move between your partner's legs with their permission, of course. In general, people with vulvas like one of three different approaches: clitoral stroking, penetration with your fingers, or both at the same time. You want your partner to be aching for skin-to-skin contact by the time you finally let them have it. Make out with your partner, kiss their neck, and nibble on their ears.
Juliette. Age: 30.
Spend plenty of time warming up before you move between your partner's legs with their permission, of course.
Ivy. Age: 30.
Horny Girl Rubbing Her Vagina
You also want to make sure to wash your hands right before getting down to business, to protect your partner from getting an infection in this area. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Also discussing that what might have felt good before might not feel good today, and that is not a personal attack or critique it's just how most with vulvas can respond.