Instead I woke up to a hangover and more confusion. On the contrary, he was charming, and I found myself unconsciously reciprocating his advances, but then pulling away out of fear. For many, college is a time of excess. My mind was running a mile a minute. Vassar College, for lack of better words, is gay AF, and I mean that in the best of ways.
Kinsley. Age: 29.
After about two weeks of sleepless nights questioning my sexuality, I decided that I was straight.
Jaylynn. Age: 22.
I Hooked Up With Men For Five Years Before I Understood I Was Bi
This leads to my second piece of advice: Do things sober. Only unlike the boys in high school who spread nasty rumors behind my back, these boys were trying to hook up. Nothing was bad about the experience except I did vomit at one point but nothing was necessarily good either. You can also rationalize pretty much anything when drunk, because hey, you were drunk, you had no idea what you were doing.